How to Use a Squirting Dildo: Tips & Tricks

June 2, 2025

An ejaculating dildo is a type of sex toy designed to simulate ejaculation. It typically looks like a realistic penis but contains a hidden mechanism—a small internal tube and a squeezable bulb or reservoir—that allows you to inject fluid through the shaft and out the tip.

This mimics the visual of a real orgasm and can add a fun layer of fantasy or realism to solo play, partner play, or cam shows. The designs vary slightly depending on the brand, but most include a refillable chamber, either built into the toy or as a separate squeeze bulb that connects via tubing.

Shop the Best Squirting Dildo from Anesidora

How Do You Fill It?

Filling a squirting dildo is pretty straightforward, but it does depend on the specific model you're using. Some dildos have a separate squeeze bulb you can detach, while others use built-in testicle-style reservoirs.

Here’s a general step-by-step guide:

Pick Your Liquid – Water works fine, but many users opt for “cum lube” for a more realistic effect. Some even use milk or almond milk for a thicker texture, though you’ll want to clean your toy more thoroughly after.
Prep the Bulb or Chamber – If the toy uses a removable bulb, squeeze it to push out the air, then submerge it into your chosen liquid. Let go, and the bulb will suck up the liquid. Then reattach it to the dildo.
Integrated Design? – If your dildo has a built-in bulb (often located in the balls), just squeeze out the air, submerge the dildo’s tip into your liquid, and let go. It will draw the fluid into the shaft, ready to squirt.

How to Use a Squirting Dildo

Once it’s filled, the fun begins. Here’s a breakdown of how to use it for the best experience:

1. Set the Scene

Whether you're flying solo or playing with a partner, take a moment to get in the mood. Lay down a towel if you're worried about mess, especially if you're using thicker liquids.

2. Lubrication Is Key

Apply a good amount of water-based lube to both the dildo and yourself. Squirting dildos tend to have a realistic shape and texture, and you want everything to feel smooth and comfortable.

3. Position Yourself

Many squirting dildos come with a suction cup base, which is great for hands-free fun. Stick it to a shower wall, mirror, chair, or even your headboard. You can also use it with a strap-on harness or hold it manually.

4. Ride, Stroke, or Penetrate

However you like to use your toys, go at your own pace. Some people enjoy slowly building up the intensity while others like to dive right in. When you're ready for that grand finale, squeeze the bulb or balls to trigger the “cumshot.”

5. Repeat or Reload

You can usually get a few good spurts out of one fill, but if you want more action, just reload and go again.

What Does It Feel Like to Get Squirted In?

Now for the juicy question: does it actually feel like real ejaculation?

The short answer is: kind of—but mostly in your mind.

According to real users on Anesidora Forum, most people can’t physically feel semen entering them unless it's a large amount, close to the entrance, or at a different temperature. The human body isn’t actually great at detecting wetness internally—it mainly uses temperature, sight, and context cues.

So, while the physical sensation may be subtle, the psychological effect can be powerful. The idea of being “filled up,” especially when it’s under your control, can be incredibly erotic. It adds an element of realism and fantasy fulfillment that standard dildos just don’t offer.

Can I DiY Cums?

This is a personal preference, but here are a few popular and safe options:

Cum Lube: These are usually thicker, white-colored lubricants designed to look like semen. Some popular brands even offer refills specifically for squirting dildos. Just make sure they’re body-safe and vaginal-safe if you're using them internally.
Water or Lube Mix: If you're going for easy cleanup, water or a mix of water and lube works fine.
Milk or Non-Dairy Milks: Some people like using milk for the visual effect. If you do this, clean the toy immediately to avoid bacteria or bad smells.

Avoid: Sugary liquids or oils. These can cause infections or damage the toy.

Pro Tips for Using a Squirting Dildo

Warm It Up: Heat your liquid slightly before filling to make it feel more realistic. Body temperature is around 98.6°F (37°C), so lukewarm is perfect.
Go Slow at First: Test how the squirting function works before you're deep into play. The last thing you want is a high-powered squirt hitting your ceiling.
Clean It Thoroughly: After each use, run warm water through the squirting mechanism and wash the dildo with mild soap or sex toy cleaner. Let it dry completely before storing.

A Final Word on Safety

Not all squirting dildos are created equal. Cheaper toys, especially from mass marketplaces like Temu or AliExpress, may contain unsafe materials like PVC or low-grade TPE. These can be porous (hard to clean) or contain phthalates, which are harmful chemicals linked to reproductive issues.

Look for toys made from 100% body-safe silicone, ABS plastic, or glass—and buy from trusted retailers who specialize in adult products.

Item added to your cart