Tailed Butt Plug ：Everything You Need to Know

Tailed butt plugs, like fox tails and bunny tails, are more than just eye-catching — they’re a fun way to explore fantasy, kink, and body confidence. But if you’re new to anal play, especially when adding a furry tail to the mix, it’s totally normal to feel a little nervous or confused.

That’s exactly what happened to one user who bought a fox tail plug for a custom request and realized: “I’ve never used one before. Help!”

So let’s break it down — from how to start safely to real tips from people who’ve been there. Here’s your full guide to using a tailed butt plug like a pro.

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What Is a Tailed Butt Plug?

A tailed butt plug is exactly what it sounds like: a plug designed for anal insertion that has a tail attached to the base. The tail can be long and fluffy like a fox or bunny, or it might be short and playful. These toys are often used for pet play, cosplay, or just for the aesthetic and added flair in the bedroom.

But behind the tail is still a butt plug, and that means you need to approach it with the same care and respect as any anal toy.

 

Start Small — Seriously, Start Small

Our users emphasized this: don’t start with the tailed plug if it’s big. That’s a common mistake. One user said:

“When I saw the fox tail, I thought it was toooo big, but a 3-pack of training plugs helped me get ready.”

Anal training kits are your best friend here. These kits usually come with three different sizes, so you can start small and work your way up over a few sessions. This lets your body adapt gradually instead of forcing it all at once — which is where a lot of discomfort and even injury can come from.

If you're just beginning, you don’t even need to start with a plug. Some people recommend beginning with a finger or two and slowly increasing from there.

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Lube Is Non-Negotiable

If there’s one golden rule for anal play, it’s this: more lube is always better.

You need lube on the plug itself — especially the tip and widest part — and around the entrance of your butt. Our expert put it best:

“LUBE LUBE LUBE. Make sure you’re lining your toy and fingers as much as you can.”

As for what kind to use, here’s the breakdown:

  • Water-based lube: Safe for all toy materials, easy to clean, but might need reapplying.

  • Silicone-based lube: Long-lasting and slick, but not safe for silicone toys.

  • Coconut oil: Some people love it for a natural feel, but be cautious—it can break down latex and isn’t ideal for every toy.

Make sure to always double-check what your toy is made of, and match your lube accordingly.

 

Get Comfortable and Take It Slow

You don’t need to rush anything. The best way to insert a tailed plug (or any anal toy) is to get comfy, relax, and go slowly.

Some users recommend lying on your side, while others prefer kneeling or squatting. The important thing is to listen to your body.

“Don’t try to shove it all in at once,” one user said. “The muscles may cramp up. But once it’s in, you’re golden!”

That cramping or slight discomfort at first is normal — but if you feel real pain, stop. Remove the plug slowly, take a break, and try again later. There’s no shame in taking time to get used to it.

 

How to Clean a Tail Butt Plug

 

Let’s talk hygiene. Anal toys need to be cleaned carefully every time you use them — and with tailed plugs, there’s the extra step of washing the fur.

Here’s a basic cleaning guide shared by an experienced user:

  1. For the plug: Use unscented soap (like Dawn) and warm water. Scrub well and rinse completely.

  2. For the tail: Use gentle laundry detergent (like something you'd use for lingerie). Mix it in warm water and swish the tail, keeping the plug end out of the water if possible.

  3. Rinse: With fresh water in a clean bowl or under running water.

  4. Dry: Squeeze gently with a towel, then hang the tail to dry. One user said:

    “I use a hair tie around the plug and the neck of a hanger.”

This helps keep your plug hygienic and your tail fluffy and ready for next time.

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Bonus Tips From Real Users

Here are a few more golden nuggets straight from Our Anesidora Forum:

  • Masturbate before play: It helps relax your muscles and makes the whole process easier.

  • Don’t trust sketchy materials: Especially on Amazon. Look for body-safe silicone or stainless steel. Stay away from jewel plugs with unsafe bases — they can get lost inside.

  • Communicate if you’re filming or doing customs: Know your limits and don’t feel pressure to go too big too soon.

  • It gets easier: Once you’ve used it a few times, inserting and wearing a plug can become second nature.

 

Final Thoughts: Embrace the Experience

Using a tailed butt plug can be sexy, playful, and empowering — but like all good things, it’s better when you take your time to do it right. No matter your reason for trying it (custom video, partner play, or just for fun), listen to your body and don’t rush the journey.

As one user perfectly put it:

“Buttholes can be tight!! There’s no shame in taking a bit to try something new.”

You’ve got this — now go wag that tail!

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